Our dear friend Angela has given me permission to share this love story. In 2003 or 2004 while participating in a shooting sport one winter in Arizona we met Angela and Ralph. They were from Maryland where they owned a horse farm, boarding and training horses. They took time off in winter to find sunshine and eventually sold the farm, becoming full time RVers. We’ve stayed in touch all these years, they have visited us in Montana and we’ve met up in other places. They winter in Arizona in their fifth wheel parked on an Escapees lot and also spend some time near Tombstone in their truck camper parked on a shooting range as Ralph is still participating in shooting sports. In summers they load up the truck camper and travel the US. A couple summers ago they spent from May through September in Alaska.
On about January 3 Angie called–she and Ralph had tested positive for covid and Ralph was in the ER. He had been sick for about three days before going to the ER. He had pneumonia, they gave him lots of fluids and sent him home with a drug store full of medications. For a while it seemed he was gaining–with Angie’s help–very weak, awful cough, miserable but gaining. Then things went very downhill.
Angie took him back to the ER on Thursday where the doctor painted a very grim picture. Our friend was losing the battle. They transferred Ralph to a hospital ICU in Tucson. I drove to Tombstone on Thursday afternoon to sit with Angie for a while and we both shed lots of tears.
On Friday Angie went to Tucson from Tombstone taking love letters (she is a fabulous letter writer!) for Ralph, cards and cookies for the nurses. On Friday evening she spoke with his nurse–Ralph was doing so well he had been moved out of ICU and into a room on the “covid floor.” Simply amazing–you cannot imagine the joy in Angie’s voice when she called.
On Saturday she took a big red heart to the hospital and asked the nurses to place it in his window so she would know which room was Ralph’s. You see, Angela was sitting outside in a little cactus garden beneath the windows of the fourth floor covid wing–that’s as close as she could get to Ralph. Angela was on the phone with a friend, she saw curtains moving in a room on the fourth floor and all of a sudden, there was her red heart and then there was Ralph–waving to her.
Sunday Angela was back at the hospital, sitting beneath the windows of the fourth floor. She has become known all over the hospital as “the lady that sits outside all day.” Sunday they released the man who on Thursday wasn’t expected to live. Prayers were being said all over this country–our mutual friend Linda belongs to a prayer group and had asked them to pray for Ralph. Ralph and Angie have a wide circle of friends who were praying. We are so, so glad he is improving. I’m sure there is a rough road ahead but hopefully he will continue down the right path!
Angela and Ralph have been together almost 31 years. Their love story is one of closeness, mutual respect, humor, love of history and anything cowboy. Being separated from him while he was fighting for his life was heart breaking for Angela and I’m sure for Ralph too.
And that’s all I’m going to talk about today–it’s been a rough few days for Angela, Ralph, their family and friends.
Thank you so much for sharing this. ❤️
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It’s a beautiful story!
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Such a wonderful story about some fine folks. Thank you.
Don in Okla.
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Yes Don, Angie and Ralph are fine folks!
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Oh Janna. Words are somehow just redundant in the face of such things. A love story with a happy ending. Prayers from here as well
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And we are so thankful the ending was happy!
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Blessings to Ralph and Angela…
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Thanks Barb!
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Wow! A wonderful story by an excellent story teller.
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Thanks! A happy ending for which we are thankful!
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I cried all the way through this love story. I am so happy for your friends. We all need to hear good news.
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Thank you Sandie–it was one of the happy endings in this mess we are all in!
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BEAUTIFUL AND UPLIFTING LOVE STORY. THANKS FOR SHARING.
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Thanks!
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Wow! So glad he pulled thru, one lucky one, out of many who didn’t! Hugs and prayers for continued recovery
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Yes, sadly there are many who haven’t pulled through.
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Angie is my sister and Ralph is one of the family. Before this happened I doubted the existence of God or any higher being although I consider myself spiritual and go out of my way to help others. When things were at their darkest, I prayed so hard hoping for any chance that Ralph would make it. I posted on Facebook for my friends and family to do the same. They did in droves and at least 3 people asked their prayer group to pray for Ralph. The love and caring people showed was amazing. As you stated Ralph made it through what not many thought he would. I think it was the power of prayer and from now on. I am a believer!
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I’ve heard a lot about you Flo–we are so thankful Ralph survived!
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Thank you God for these stories! Gay
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Yes Gay!–they make all the bad news a whole lot more bearable!
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What a heartwarming story! Love can heal & cure many ailments. So happy this one is turning out for the better.
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So are we Chloe!
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A lovely and hopeful love story – thanks to you and Angela for sharing.
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Angela calls him her “sweetheart,” never anything else–that tells you something about their relationship.
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So wonderful to read this success story. Wishing Angela and Ralph many more years of love and adventure as soon as Ralph regains his strength from this dreaded virus.
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He’s doing so much better all ready–may it continue!
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This is so beautiful. It brought me to tears reading of the red heart in the window…wishing them all the best.
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Angela is a special person without a doubt! She sends out more birthday/get well/anniversary/sympathy cards than anyone I know. And she doesn’t just sign her name, she writes a personal message.
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